Suspension work is very straightforward. Improved parts yield improved results unless you did something wrong. The source of the problem could be in various areas. Answer the following questions so we can help:
1. What brand parts did you use ($1K spent suggests Lemforder)? Did you get OEM or aftermarket brands?
2. Where did you buy them (hopefully not eBay)?
3. Is the car ride height the same as before?
4. When you speak of "road feel", do you mean handling qualities like steering feedback, tracking, etc. or ride qualities like shock absorption, noise, vibration harshness, etc.?
5. Did you follow EVERY step of the DIY? Did you take ANY shortcuts or modify any steps?
Apologize for not being more specific...followed cn90's DIY almost to the T.... I'll answer the questions above in order:
1. I spent about $1100 ...used Lemforder for control and thrust arms, Sachs for struts and strut mounts... I believe I used Bilstien sway bar links - that's the only variation from the parts list. I ordered using the parts list and numbers from the DIY. BTW - I did buy the tie rod ends (Lemforder), but as I stated didn't install b/c they were good; ball joints still nice and tight, etc.
2. Purchased the parts from a combination of eactuning and partsgeek.
3. Yes, car ride height is the same.
4. It tracks straight/ doesn't pull. It goes where you point it, and there is NO slop in the steering. However it seems to wander for lack of a better word...doesn't have that 'glued to the road' feel. It does handle the bumps much better, there are no vibrations, clunks, etc.
As far as short cuts from the DIY.... not really. I did preload the suspension before torquing down...however, I did this with the car empty (e.g. no one sitting in it). I did use a torque wrench to ensure I had the correct values.
I wouldn't have posted, however, in some respects the road feel seems worse than before I did the work.